Parkinson's: Guest Post Patrick Elvin

ME AND PARKINSONS


My new friend Nancy who I met through the Parkinsons on line choir last year has asked me to write a post for her wonderful Blog which I have been following since I met Nancy. So here goes .  My name is Patrick Elvin aged 72 and I am a British citizen living with my wife Susan, a dog and a cat in Southern Spain for the past 25 years.  I am a former Royal Naval Officer who retired early and became an English Language teacher,  but since moving to Spain have worked as a walking guide, a holiday home letting agent, jobbing musician and author of some 9 guide books, mainly on walking but also on architecture;  you could say a jack of all Trades but master of none ! 

Me walking in the local mountains last year and my last book
I was lucky in my journey with Parkinsons in that two good friends, both doctors, got together and convinced each other that I was showing symptoms of the disease.  Having gently broken the news, I got a provisional diagnosis in 2020 on the phone during the pandemic and was put on to the usual medications.  The symptoms I was displaying were the standard set ;  a mask face,  loss of mobility in the right arm and hand,  weak voice, fatigue, difficulty swallowing and poor balance.  I had to give up playing the violin and guitar and have taken up the tuba to compensate for this loss.  I now play in the village band along with my wife who plays the tenor saxophone.

The village band in performance;  spot the tuba player.

There is a tremendous amount of support for those with Parkinsons so there is no need to tackle this disease on your own.  There are inspiring people like Nancy who have taken a positive approach to life with Parkinsons.  I first spotted her amongst a computer screen full of members of the Parkinsons Choir and she stood out with her beaming face and vibrant personality.  I was emboldened to drop her an email as I did not know anyone who was a fellow sufferer and was so grateful she responded.  The underlying message to those with Parkinsons is to stay positive and as active as possible and you will continue to enjoy life.  For me that is staying involved with running the local hiking group, riding my e-bike, playing tennis,  writing another guide book, playing bridge, continuing my musical activities,  doing puzzles, and maintaining an active social life .

Yours truly centre stage with members of the Gaucin hikers :  below signing one of my guide books
The theme of this post is that Parkinsons is not a death sentence and that medication and an active lifestyle can contribute to reducing the impact of the disease,  as Nancy calls it Snarky Parky ! 

Footnotes From Corrine: Hiay, fellow Brit (Geordie) waving from Ahwatukee, Arizona. Such a pleasure to meet you and hearing about your continuing adventures with your wife in Southern Spain.  It's hardly surprising Nancy stood out, she is everything you say, inspiring and full of art mischief and tries to focus on the positive. 

Comments

  1. Hi Patrick, thank you so much for writing a post! What I really loved about you right off the bat, was the way you connected/connect with so many people. Your and Susan's life is so rich in friendships and music! I hope this is the first of many posts for the blog!

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  2. Thank you for such an inspiring blog post. As always, these words apply to all of us who are aging, not just those who have Parkinson's. When I read such writing, I think, "Okay. If you can do it, I can do it!" Thank you for reminding us that life is indeed about living, and about finding ways to do that to the best of our abilities.

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  3. Hello, Patrick! Nancy has talked a lot about you since you two connected. I love that you pivoted to the tuba! My boss in the young men's clothing store I worked for during high school was a tuba player. He talked about taking lessons with Bill Bell, who played tuba with John Phillips Sousa's Marine Band. My boss, Walter Major, used to hop on the back of a streetcar, illegally, carrying his tuba and meet with Bill Bell at his hotel after a Marine Band concert. The others staying in the hotel used to howl with complaints when the two would be caught playing tuba at 2:00 am! For that reason, I have always had an affinity for tuba players! Yours is a marvelous adventure to read about. I'm sure its even more amazing to live! Thanks for the post! --Steve Deal (Nancy's lesser half)

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  4. Hi Steve thanks for writing on my post. You are a lucky man being married to Nancy. Is nt music a wonderful thing to have in life whether it be listening or playing it fulfils many functions. May be you should write a post for Nancys blog . What it is like being married to a Parkinsns sufferer or something similar. cheers Patrick

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